Intombazana yavuthela umfana kuba engakwazi ukumanga okanye ukujola. Useyintombi nto. Ngoko umama ulungile - intombi kufuneka incedise umnakwabo ukuba abe yindoda. Kwaye umama ebengayi kumnqwenelela nto imbi. Ngethamsanqa umntwana unabazali abahambele phambili ngolo hlobo.
Umkhulu uvuyo lwangempela kumzukulu oshushu, kuphela kunye naye ubulili basekuseni bubumnandi obungenakulibaleka.